
Exactly. Men will ALWAYS find a way to blame a woman for something- even if its unrelated to them. Theyll find something negative on the internet and try to blame a woman for it. For instance, the man that killed his whole family because his wife tried to divorce him. Some dude said “She mustve been abusive” or “She mustve been trying to take the kids away from him” what the fuck makes u think that validates killing your ENTIRE FAMILY INCLUDING INFANT CHILDREN.
i agree w your statement that women can also be bad at accountability, but i also think it makes a lot of sense to assume there is a gendered element because of certain trends and systemic gendered issues. I am not saying men are inherently that way, but there seems to be a historical trend of that being the case if you read women’s accounts of their experiences in relationships with men over time