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Girl Talk 1d
An old bff tried reaching back out and idk what to feel or say?
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Anonymous 1d

We were bffs since grade school, high school, and then college she had a really hard major I can understand, and working to help herself a bit more. But she just began to never text me back or call, so it was my efforts and the few times she came home. Last year she got engaged and planned a wedding to a guy nobody met, so I’m already iffy. But she planned it on my b day. I have bad memories abt that day so I asked her to maybe not. She said I had plenty bdays and she gets 1 wedding /1

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Anonymous 1d

do u wanna be friends with her again?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

She had 2 (one in Europe paid for by the grooms family and nobody was invited and he’s now on her as green card situation.) and for the American day, she didn’t bother to keep up any contact either, but called me days after my bday to see if I’ll be there. I was in Hawai’i, SURVIVING. The Kona low… didn’t care. Lost my job so I couldn’t, no answer. 6 months later she texts me “Imiss you” and “you fell off the earth” and denied SHE was the ghost. So…

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1d

I don’t see the full value. She clearly proved for 6 years she doesn’t own a phone, she lives across the country, she doesn’t come home or doesn’t want to travel here in the past. What kind of friend is that? That she noticed suddenly I haven’t texted her in almost a year? Basically nothing years prior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah honestly after reading the stuff u said i'd just ignore her tbh

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