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Girl Talk 8w
Guys I’m so scared of a bf or a relationship or j men in general I run away/ghost every single time but then wonder why i’ve never dated but i don’t even mind being single it’s all i’ve ever known
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Anonymous 8w

Don’t get me wrong i do get lonely and i do wonder what having a bf is like but I feel like it’s a trap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I think something to think about. A relationship is just being with someone who makes it worth not being single for. By that I mean, you need to actually enjoy the person you’re dating. Not the boyfriend, the person. It is a trap. You’re tied down, your decisions aren’t just yours, your mind and body are also shared. That’s exactly, what it means. It means willingly being trapped. Together. Because it’s better to be with them, than without.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

why do so many ppl want a relationship? I genuinely don’t get it. Maybe I’m selfish but I can’t imagine how anyone else’s company could be better than my own. Having so much shared sounds so scary ppl are so unreliable, especially men

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