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My Bf slept over last night and woke up at 5:30 to watch YouTube or reels with the volume on (waking me as well). I understand he isn’t sleeping so I can’t complain too much but I don’t know why I don’t get to sleep either:( how do I address it kindly?
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Anonymous 11w

ur better than me i would've kicked him tf out. if ur going to wake up at the ass crack of dawn you use HEADPHONES. and if u don't have any u leave or do things silently. he's whack asf for doing that i'd be pissed

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Anonymous 11w

I didn’t realize he was sleeping over last night and I didn’t prepare by putting in earplugs. I had already stayed up an hour later than intended because he was watching tv :( and I’m just sad I woke up 2 hours early too :( I know I’m being unreasonable i just want to sleep

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

girl u are NOT being unreasonable, that’s extremely inconsiderate of him!!! he couldn’t be bothered to use a pair of headphones? this would piss me off beyond belief, he took away THREE HOURS of ur sleep!!!!! i would take a little bit to think abt if there are other ways that he is not thoughtful towards u, and if there are, consider if thats the type of person u want to be with for a long time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Ugh he is pretty considerate in other areas and generally nice but he just doesn’t realize how much I like to sleep and can hear literally everything all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Like I want 9 hours and am not going to get it tonight because I work early the next few weeks for some fucking reason. Thank the lord I’m going to 9 because then I can actually get enough sleep

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