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he has cancelled on me 3x so i just assumed that i thought he would cancel. HE DID. he literally did as i was talking to my friend about this feeling lol
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Girl Talk 3w
supposed to go on a date today and woke up with a bad feeling. idk if it’s cold feet or a bad gut feeling. wtf should i do
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Anonymous 3w

1 time, ok things happen. 4 times? Girl nah

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Anonymous 3w

girl ghost him and block him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

He doesn’t respect you or your time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

once because he had to build a fence ??? it was a really long oddly specific message lol. twice for work. once for his daughter. today i told him if he can’t see me today i cannot keep doing this. i grew a backbone!!!! i’m so proud lol (i also had to cancel once because i was sick asf)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i’m scared that if i do i won’t find anyone better :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i can promise u being single is far more pleasant than being with someone who doesn't love u the way u deserve to be loved, esp after asking multiple times. breakup, join some new hobbies, meet some new friends and focus on urself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

we aren’t even dating :( just trying to go out once. i feel so so defeated. i have hobbies and friends but my entire self worth/identity revolves around what men think of me. idk how to break free

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

ok just realized yall are just dating and not even together. get out now before he does this thru a whole relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i'd genuinely stop dating. go on solo dates, get to knw urself more and get comfortable with urself. it'll show u just how little a man's presence actually matters. surround urself with a nice group of women and build ur community

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i’m just getting out of a DV situation at home and when this guy is nice to me he is REALLY NICE then he shatters it all by cancelling. i feel like i can’t maintain friendships because of the DV background, but usually can keep a partner long enough (apparently not lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i like feel bad being friends with women because of the emotional stuff i go through. men deserve to deal with the craziness but not girls yk lol. i’m in therapy and everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it doesnt sound very healthy to go thru life without friends. i'd say friends are a shit ton more important than partners. i'm sure ur therapist would love to explore ur thoughts on tht with u, id definitely bring that up if u haven't already

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