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the mindset of someone who is mature enough to be married
I don’t feel bad when people say they have no bridesmaids lol you picked your orbit and chose not to foster friendships. me on the other hand .. my side is going to be full
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Anonymous 8w

it’s harsh but honestly i agree. if you want friends you have to put effort into keeping and maintaining them. it’s unfortunately so common for women to fixate on their partners and drift apart from their friends

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Anonymous 8w

well I’m young so I don’t have to be mature enough for marriage rn 😭 what about it? you can quote me for attention all you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

you have a rancid personality lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

it’s a mystery how I have so many good friends then. much more likely for the people mad at what I said 😭😂😛

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

i dont get the feeling your friends like you that much 😭 i sure wouldnt

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

they don’t like me they love me sorry you can’t relate. you’re triggered and that’s a personal problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

i think oop is right but the way she’s acting says wayyyyy more than her words lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

babe im married and i had plenty of bridesmaids i just think the way you use this app makes you seem like a mega loser lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

i mean respectfully what is she supposed to do? the op of this post came at her nasty and so she’s returning that energy. she also hasn’t even been mean in these comments, you’re the only one insulting her 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

married and on yy? now that’s loserish

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

i think we just disagree and thats okay because i think oops comments on the og post warrant being called out

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

some people have never had a lot of close friends. my mom has a lot of friends and didn’t have any bridesmaids. I just think it’s very telling to speak about something others are self conscious about in such a nasty way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

k bae go tell it to your girlfriends

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

she immediately replied to her own self on her post saying she “made the pathetic hos mad”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

im just gonna block her tbh she seems like a bitch and thats not my problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

do so. bye bye!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

actually I got it for you 🤣🤣😋

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

if by immediately you mean 20 minutes after she made the post and probably got downvoted sure lol. i definitely think this will be an agree to disagree thing bc if someone gets upset by someone else saying you need to put effort into friendships if you want them to be there to celebrate with you… idk that is kinda pathetic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

I get the root of the sentiment like yes maybe you shouldn’t complain about having no friends if you haven’t made the effort to make them but the follow up comment makes it clear that she just has a bad attitude. doesn’t really mesh with the “grown up” topic of marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

yeah bc we’re all in our early twenties? i would hope no one’s getting married now lol. taking a yikyak post this personal honestly isn’t very mature either

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

I’m not taking it personally as much as I’m just commenting on it. but that’s alright like you said we can agree to disagree

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