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“SW is empowering for women!” no. it reinforces a misogynistic n sexualized view of women. “no, it’s destigmatizing for 🌽⭐️’s!” it’s creating a new stigma that makes ppl think women who look a certain way or post on socials have an OF or want one
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Anonymous 51w

I think it’s important to recognize that sw absolutely does empower some women, though it’s negative for women on the whole. It’s also important to acknowledge that the consumers are the problem, as is anyone involved in forced production, but ((most)) consenting SWers themselves aren’t the problem. Exceptions include those that caters to problematic themes like ‘teen fantasy’ and rape play and stuff

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Anonymous 51w

“well it creates income for ppl who are struggling” i understand that and i sympathize with them. but that doesn’t change the fact that SW harms how society views women as a whole. “it normalizes women’s bodies!” SW ultimately serves men and even then it still harms them. the industry as a whole is predatory towards the workers and the consumers.

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Anonymous 51w

Yeah like honestly? If you’re ACTIVELY choosing to do so and enjoy it, cool, I won’t shame you… but porn and sexual media IS incredibly harmful for everyone involved. It creates false ideas on what sex is and creates the normalization of sexualization/objectification of women’s bodies in a world where women are already struggling with being seen as equal human beings

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Anonymous 51w

it’s honestly just a slap in the face for other SWers. where i live these women are standing on the streets and doing it for survival and women around the world do it to survive. u ask them it’s not about empowerment and if given the choice they would choose to not be used by men to bring food to the table

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Anonymous 51w

It reinforces all the things that fuel misogyny. It’s making young boys more and more violent toward their peers. all around terrible.

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Anonymous 51w

as a social work major i genuinely thought we were talking about social workers here for a solid 5 mins omf-

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Anonymous 51w

To me, the fact that it’s typically men owning the clubs the women work in and stuff makes me even more upset because even if the women are making money, there’s still a man above them profiting off of them

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Anonymous 51w

I find the history of sex work interesting. It always empowered women just enough for basic freedoms, but always at the dispense of themselves. It’s a miserable topic, but one I always find myself drawn to.

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Anonymous 51w

What is SW I live under a rock 😭

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Anonymous 51w

I'm afraid 21 has been reincarnated as 24

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Anonymous 51w

Hate when ppl say it’s empowering it’s just continues the allow men to only view women for their bodies but atleast they get paid for it 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous 51w

These arguments scream some kind of cognitive dissonance or rationalization. I genuinely don’t believe people think there’s nothing wrong with porn in this day and age. They’re too afraid of sounding offensive or they themselves watch porn and need to justify their own actions

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Anonymous 51w

Imo it’s dehumanizing and not at all empowering. I don’t see how selling your body and playing into the hands of misogyny would make me believe that you respect yourself. And sure, some people have different situations and aren’t able to do something different, but it damages how people view women in general. And obviously the client base is the root cause - there wouldn’t be a market without its customers. Men don’t have a right to be angry at women for delivering a service that they eat up

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Anonymous 51w

Did 21 get banned or block me cause all her comments are gone

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 51w

^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 51w

sex worker! or sex work depending on context

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 51w

I see what you’re saying but I also don’t think it makes much sense to say the producers aren’t at fault as much as the consumers are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 51w

i disagree. i think if you’re willingly participating in an industry that is inherently harmful to society then you’re a large part of the problem. esp by the time they get involved and see the industry from the inside. there’s no justification for it and i have a hard time believing that the majority of producers are ignorant to the negative impacts of their content.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 51w

selling your body is never empowering. there are so many other things to sell. it is dehumanizing and exploits women as something to use and discard for a price.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 51w

I’m not disagreeing with everything you’re saying, but I think you should take into account that many participants are doing so as a last resort. The education system and job market do not and have never set people up for any form of success hence sex work becoming the option they turn to

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 51w

i understand and sympathize w that. that doesn’t change the fact that SW harms society as a whole. to me, that’s an explanation for why they do it but not a justification for the consequences of their actions.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 51w

Having more anger towards the people who create the content or perform the actions as last resort than those who watch it doesn’t make much sense to me. Yes it harms society significantly, however there is a reason that it exists they don’t do things and hope it gains traction or popularity to make money. There is a fan base of people who are already desiring it. Please be upset at them as they are also the ones who formed this whole thing

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Anonymous 51w

Agreed

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Anonymous 51w

In most industries I think

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Anonymous 51w

I think to an extent though that’s representative of the jobs that are more profitable vs more beneficial, but I understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 51w

Exactly. It’s literally objectifying yourself. Like do you think people care about who you are or what kind of person you are once you start doing porn? No.

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Anonymous 51w

so what point are you trying to make w this?

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Anonymous 51w

Okay. Then all those people who watch it should find something else to do with their lives. Idc who watches it or who it features. It’s damaging to everyone.

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Anonymous 51w

who is porn catered to? who does it ultimately benefit?

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Anonymous 51w

So someone buying books is unethical? That’s consuming under capitalism. That’s not really a valid point. Labor as a doctor is exploitation? Therapists? Firefighters?

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Anonymous 51w

it’s not bc it’s sexual in nature that i’m scrutinizing it. it has nothing to do w that. i’m a very sex positive person and fully advocate for people to embrace their own sexuality. that being said, it’s impossible to ignore how much more damage is caused by the sexual industry as opposed to something like the service industry.

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Anonymous 51w

Where tf was I talking about that? I wasn’t disagreeing that something’s are. I’m just saying not ALL. Your damn phone was probably made just as unethically. And here you are, on your phone. Stop thinking everything is black and white and start doing some critical thinking about all other possibilities. It’s not an all or nothing thing.

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Anonymous 51w

How about the woman whose SA was recorded and posted on PH? You have to admit that porn as an industry has deeply rooted negative aspects. And the people who watch that woman get SA’d and get off on it? They’re gonna want to do that irl. You see the problem here?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 51w

Women*

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Anonymous 51w

coal miners aren’t actively participating in an industry specifically built off misogyny. if you can’t see how much more harm the porn industry causes to women over any other industry then you’re feigning ignorance. i’m anticapitalist and i can acknowledge that some industries are much more harmful than other. and, for that reason, i’ll be much more outspoken towards those industries.

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Anonymous 51w

it’s not about agency (although that’s a WILD take for something as predatory as the porn industry). it’s about the consequences of supporting these industries.

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Anonymous 51w
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Anonymous 51w

oh i see what this is. you want us to all pat u on the back and praise you for being morally higher than all of us. despite the fact that we’ve all agreed that capitalism is to blame for our problems and that any exploitation is wrong. you just hate that we can focus on one industry bc it doesn’t make ur viewpoint seem as woke. here’s ur gold star for being better than the rest of us ⭐️

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Anonymous 51w

i shame cops just the same but i’m sure you’d have an argument about how they’re exploited too 🙄

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Anonymous 51w

What helps me sleep at night is knowing people like you will never succeed to the point of making rules for society, because you don't even believe in human success at your core. I can't imagine the anxiety and resentment and bitterness you live with

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Anonymous 51w

You're pulling buzzwords out of your ass now 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 51w

If you got blocked, I got blocked too lmao. Bc I can’t see her comments either

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 51w

I reported her last comment so maybe she got booted lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 51w

Empowerment is subjective. What makes someone feel “empowered” could feel irrelevant to someone else. Yea, SW is empowering to some. It isn’t to you and others, but that doesn’t take away from those who do find it empowering.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 51w

I think it can’t be underestimated how empowering to not have to live paycheck to paycheck anymore for someone who’re in that position. Is there part of that which is also dehumanizing? For a lot of people, yeah, but there is a lot of other work that can be dehumanizing too and sometimes for some people on the net it ends up being less so I would never want to do sex work, but if I were forced to choose between that and slaving away at an Amazon warehouse I’d pick the former.

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Anonymous 51w

But people are vilifying them, whether in this thread or otherwise. It is not about “supporting” it, but supporting the people exploited under it and recognizing the trade offs behind them doing so. And there are people in government trying to push porn bans, which have a history in many countries in leading to big illegal porn industries that are even harder to stop from exploiting children and r*pe. Legal and regulated, because as long as theirs is a market, there will be an industry..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 51w

I do not support the porn industry but the military industrial complex does so much exponentially more harm to women than something like the porn industry does, and there are many others high on that list.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 51w

this isn’t meant to be an oppression olympics. i’m not here to compare which industry is more harmful between the sex industry and the military industrial complex. they’re not even really comparable. again, y’all are purposefully missing the point of this post in order to feel better about urself and ur stance. at the end of the day, the sex industry harms everyone that engages w it. on any level. regardless of desperation. regardless of how they ended up in that position.

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 51w

you could easily change the language of this to “if i had to choose between working as a janitor or being a cop then I’d choose being a cop” and it’s the same idea that i’m getting across. you’re actively making the decision to participate in an industry that’s extremely harmful and vile. that’s your choice but it’s one that you should understand the consequences of. by participating you are supporting in that sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 51w

You said “if you can’t see how the porn industry does exponentially more harm to women than any other industry…” I do not know how else to interpret that other than you comparing which industry is more harmful and that is why I brought up the military industrial complex. I do not support the porn industry, I do not participate in nor consume it. And you are missing my point. I am not saying the industry doesn’t harm everyone who engaged with it, it does

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 51w

The Amazon warehouse industry as it currently operates is extremely harmful and vile, and dehumanizing. The porn industry is also dehumanizing, but I don’t think it’s always moreso than being forced to piss in bottles. The porn industry is always harmful to participants in it, it also obviously provides benefits such as income which can get people out of dangerous situations, and for some people that makes it not a net harm, even it’s extremely damaging. Those people need another way out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 51w

I would agree it contribute to the normalizing of sexualization/objectification of women’s bodies, but I would strongly contest they it creates it. That idea is imbedded in the culture and deeply ingrained in our history, at many levels, and not limited to any kind of media. Undoing that is going to be a long and hard struggle

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