Anonymous #4 10w

I think you should really really try to use to break to see how you’d be without him. Go out with your friends, try at least one new hobby, one new club, a trivia night, a bike ride each day, whatever you enjoy doing just for you, try that. That way it’s less time just sitting there wondering if they’ll come back

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Anonymous #3 10w

Nope. He literally just hung the phone up on me and didn’t say any specific time frame. No contact for 2 months

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Anonymous #4 10w

He’s living his best life. I’ve been seeing it on social media. Partying drinking smoking, going out, girls. He even posted a video of him with a girl. I just feel stupid bc this whole time I’ve just been working and staying home minding my business & not doing anything id regret thinking that he’s coming back

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Anonymous OP 10w

Boys are like that though. At least from my experience and what I’ve observed in the people around me. Girls are sad off the rip from the breakup and take time to heal and then slowly but surely get better. Guys are immediately sadish maybe but mostly like woohoo party distraction get to do whatever I want, and then later when that gets old the sadness comes back for them and they realize what they were missing. Especially since by that time the girl is usually beginning to thrive on their own.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Again, that’s just my 2 cents it’s not science but I wouldn’t put too much weight into what he’s doing. Especially since ofc he’s more likely to post the “fun” stuff he’s doing and not his sad lonely nights at home. Keep working on yourself queen it will get better!

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Anonymous #4 10w

The thing is he didn’t even classify it as breaking up with me. He literally asked for a “break”. i wish he would’ve just broken up with me. It’s just not fair i’ve been feeling like shit and questioning my worth and if he even ever loved me, and he’s just having the time of his life

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Anonymous OP 10w

I’m so sorry you’re going through this girl. I hope you can find what makes you you again and realize you’re worth so much as a person without anyone else. Just you! Maybe it’s best to just tell yourself it’s over? As bad as it hurts it may be better so you can stop seeing it as waiting for him while he gets to do whatever he wants.

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Anonymous #4 10w

thank you queen

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Anonymous OP 9w

Hey hope you’re doing okay. I forgot to respond but he is so not worth it. Find someone who respects you and is communicative/honest with you

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