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Soooo I just found out I’m actually a girl
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Anonymous 1d

Congrats!!

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Anonymous 1d

You mean you found out you feel like you fit more into the feminine region? This isn’t a hate comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

By all technicalities, I suppose. Idk, the concept of gender has genuinely just never mattered to me and I think I just actually found out why. Which is like. Weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

No, I found out I have XX chromosomes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Mama what

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yup. Soooo I just found out I’m genetically a girl aaaaaand basically everything is slowly making sense to me now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Like your parents have been hiding it from you? I’ve heard stories abt this before that’s so crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

No, we just got it tested and found out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

How didn’t they know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Well I’ve never had it tested before-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Right but you don’t typically need to get tested if you’re a male or female that’s something your parents and you know unless they hide it from you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

They didn’t. It’s a rare condition where you can be born as a boy but still have the genetics of a girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh wow did the doctor like tell you the name of it or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

XX Male Syndrome. It’s like. It makes sense because I just didn’t have a “normal” puberty and my body just doesn’t work like other boys. Mostly in the sense that I do NOT grow facial/body hair, nor did my voice ever really drop. That and like my naturally really soft skin. I always just assumed I got lucky with the growing up roulette, but no it’s a genuine thing. I’m a fucking gender anomaly LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Be happy about the body and facial hair lmao it’s not all that flattering on some guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It’s not flattering on most. I’ve always kinda been scared of men ESPECIALLY due to how creepy a lot of them look. Besides, it makes it MUCH easier to do makeup

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeahhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

actually 99% of people don’t get karyotyped, it’s surprisingly common for people to have different chromosomes than expected (compared to intersex population percentages, since the medical definition of “intersex” doesn’t include everyone with differing chromosomes or development)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

a lot of chromosomal stuff is too minor to pathologize—or even notice in the first place—so many people who we (as laymen) think of as “intersex” are medically considered to be endosex

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

a ton of people assume that doctors magically know their chromosomes or that chromosomes have to do with ASAB in any capacity, which shows how far common assumptions can be from truth lol

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