Anonymous #1 10w

That’s what I’m thinking. My parents waited until my mom was 34 & 37 (dad 1 year older), and my mom has had continued health complications from that. I think my sister’s afraid that she won’t find anyone better. The guy is great but if he was the one then she’d commit, but instead she’s emotionally unavailable for anyone who could be a better match for her life goals and spiritual values

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Anonymous #2 10w

I know my sister does not want to wait until 38 though

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Anonymous #3 8w

bc respectfully, the concept of being 2 yrs into a talking stage at the age of 26 knowing i rlly wants a family soon is…not smart. like at all lol. and then shes flying to HIM? please. he doesn’t even care to inconvenience himself by coming to you, and ur holding out hope hell father your children? and be an active father? yall gotta sit her down or smthn lmao

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Anonymous #3 8w

Like realistically, she does have time but she’s always considered herself a serious dater only. I only know of one official fling she had and it wasn’t my business so I didn’t say anything but now this seems excessive 😭 she definitely wants to go the traditional way. It’s honestly just the age gap that’s weird to me, like if she wants kids in 2 more years time, that’s perfect for her but he will be freshly 25. Oh and he’s republican and claims to not be maga but follows Trump and his niece(?)

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Anonymous #3 8w

I think she’s flying to him because his mom would’ve had to take a day off work to drive him to the airport(not worthwhile because they’re not officially dating 😂), so now he can drive her. I think he’s helping to cover the cost too

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Anonymous OP 8w

Oops i meant for this to be a response to #3

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Anonymous OP 8w

i was kinda like eh at first but u keep adding context and im like oh! no absolutely not. like it keeps getting worse😭 she needs to run for the hills and go shopping for men at like..home depot. maybe the library. a coworking space. anywhere besides in that mans phone or home. like immediately. matter of fact, what state are yall in, i may know a couple guys💀

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Anonymous OP 8w

WHAT. GIRL IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE

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Anonymous #3 8w

Lmaooo or even church. We live in a blue state so it’s safe to say that she could find a Christian Democrat who is her age or older and is serious about settling down. I stalked his following a little and he’s out in Arizona and follows a bunch of hot Cali girls 💀

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Anonymous OP 8w

For all i know these could be his hs classmates but he actively likes their posts

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Anonymous #3 8w

Oh and every time we question her she gets defensive! Like oh so you’re aware of this all

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Anonymous OP 8w

im so serious id be staging an intervention

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Anonymous #3 8w

If I end up driving her to the airport I’m gonna be questioning her the entire way. I feel like I can’t have a full conversation with her because then she blames her defensiveness on my family’s reaction. Like I just wanna know what she thinks this timeline is. I asked her today about if he was maga and she said that he claims not to be. Like ok and I can claim to be lots of things. Idk it’s just so annoying, it’s her life but I have to look in on her wasting her time and eventually she’ll

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Anonymous OP 8w

Probably end up heartbroken or divorced. They have fundamental differences and when they go to raise kids together they’re gonna clash

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Anonymous OP 7w

@OP

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Anonymous #3 7w

you seem to be trying to reason w her. shes doing her thing regardless. but with all your power. do NOT let her get and stay pregnant without a marriage license. so WHEN he leaves she can get financial support

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