Girl Talk on Sidechat | Update: He’s saying now he doesn’t want to have sex before marriage and that he’s been praying to god everyday. This man has to be on drugs.

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Girl Talk 13w

Update: He’s saying now he doesn’t want to have sex before marriage and that he’s been praying to god everyday. This man has to be on drugs.

Girl Talk 14w

Update, actual final update: he’s now going to study more into sexualities and learn. I’m gonna go much into detail but let’s say his religious parents have been telling him to read the bible. He’s going to counselor that doesn’t involve a church. 1/2

Anonymous 13w

Not on drugs, just deeply religious and influence by other people- it looks like you two aren’t matching up well at all in terms of future plans or religious values, so Id just break up- if his parents and religion have such a big impact on how he feels about his partner, you don’t want to be there anyways, unless you feel the exact same

Anonymous 13w

we told you on post #1 to break up. you just want to prolong the problems atp

Anonymous 13w

Yikes. Yeah, I’m glad y’all aren’t together. You don’t need that culty nonsense.

Anonymous 12w

I don’t understand…I also don’t wanna have sex until marriage I don’t really see what’s wrong with that 😭

Anonymous 13w

Religious psychosis

Anonymous 13w

Ok fine but if ur in a relationship partially based on sexually providing for each other, you have every right to dump him for it.

Anonymous 13w

I’ll take him

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Anonymous

#4 13w

Don’t call someone’s religion a cult.

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Anonymous

#5 13w

Too bad. If it causes this much distress and closed-mindedness, it is.

Anonymous

#1 13w

it’s only been a week! i’m sure there’s a lot more history here and we should give op grace and time to get over this loser

Anonymous

#10 13w

same girl

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Anonymous

#1 13w

Coming to terms that things won’t work with your first love is very hard. Give her time

Anonymous

#10 13w

You’re just as unready for a relationship.

Anonymous

#4 13w

He’s def a dick for the things he’s said but I don’t think the “no sex before marriage” thing is malevolent, just unusual. In my experience when people suddenly develop an interest in religion, they’re going through something personally and looking for meaning. I think Religion has a way of appealing to humans’ anxieties.

Anonymous

#13 13w

Of course. It’s designed to prey on insecurities and fears.

Anonymous

#14 12w

The other stuff is understandable th

Anonymous

#14 12w

The problem is initiating a SEXUAL relation with someone and expecting that person to just be ok with it when your partner decides out of the blue they want to wait. Yes obviously consent is important but it’s 100% ok to tale someone’s sexual prefs into account when deciding whether to continue a relationship

Anonymous

#9 12w

*take

Anonymous

#9 12w

I’m not saying she’s wrong for ending the relationship for that it makes COMPLETE sense I just don’t understand why people are hating on him for not wanting sex before marriage and stuff

Anonymous

#14 12w

Because it’s a sudden unprovoked change. I think that’s what’s hurting her the most. Not wanting sex is chill. Building a SEXUAL relationship with someone and then having them pull the opportunity sucks ngl.

Anonymous

#14 12w

I’m pretty sure they’ve already had sex tho is the thing. It sounds like he wasn’t religious at all until last week. So that’s not the relationship she signed up for

Anonymous

#13 12w

This is literally psychosis

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Anonymous

#14 12w

If you read the other posts you’ll see the main reasons for the hate

Anonymous

#12 12w

It is not, watering down the meaning of psychosis is harmful.

Anonymous

#12 12w

He’s not insane or in psychosis, his support system is just kinda shit