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plus size girls in relationships how did you find partners? I see so many beautiful plus sized baddies with hottie partners but nothing has really worked out for me :/
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Anonymous 5d

I’m mid/plus size like xl (big bust 😭😭) and I know what you mean but I think it’s more a self sabotage thing at least for me, when I’ve tried I’ve been able to get dates/hit on/flirted with by men, but I get freaked out and think their lying and back out- but the other plus sized girls I know with partners don’t doubt it and are confident! I think it’s working on that confidence tha makes the difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

thank you queen! I’ve been working on my self confidence but idk how to put myself out there tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It’s hard I’ve been trying to figure it out too, but what’s worked for me is dressing up so that I feel confident (for me tha might be wearing a nice/sexy shirt and skirt) and going out- it sounds stupid but men are men and they will look at you if you look good! That helps me know like yeah I am attractive (even though men shouldn’t stare) then slowly working up to talking to men you’re interested in through talking to men you aren’t interested in even just as friends

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