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ik this sounds like a stupid question but what’s the point of having a boyfriend I’ve never wanted one and I’m struggling to understand why ppl do
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Anonymous 9w

well sometimes they suck but when you find a good one it’s nice to have another best friend and someone you can hang with and tell anything and who can help out with stuff. also personally i don’t love having sex with random people but i love sex so a bf kinda fixes that issue LOL. but idk sometimes you also just kinda fall for someone tbh

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Anonymous 9w

Think of your question in this way. Why do you never want a boyfriend if I’ve always wanted one? Two different lives. Two different opinions. I don’t crave a man, or their attention. I met a man, who was and is my best friend, then we simply just fell in love and have been for years. You don’t have to want a boyfriend, you don’t need one. Don’t deny yourself if you find someone you love tho:)

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Anonymous 9w

I guess comfort, or for someone who understands you or even for them to listen. You may say you don’t want a relationship, until you meet that person. I had broken up with my ex and three weeks later started finding attraction to my boyfriend since we had a lot in common… but I also made him wait a month and a half since my breakup to ask me out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Plus - there is no “point” in having a boyfriend. You like someone, you love someone, make it monogamous. I want this man for life. He is legitimately the male version of me, why wouldn’t I want that? (All relationships or boyfriends don’t have to be monogamous I’d like to point out)

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