Girl Talk on Sidechat | i feel like my boyfriend is losing interest in me but he said he's not i feel crazy. i have such a bad gut feeling what do i do???

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i feel like my boyfriend is losing interest in me but he said he's not i feel crazy. i have such a bad gut feeling what do i do???

Anonymous 2w

I would say trust your gut. Why do you think he is?

Anonymous 2w

if you can’t actually pinpoint specific reasons why, it’s probably just your anxiety/self esteem

Anonymous 1w

update: he broke up w me bc he "fell out of love"

Anonymous

#1 2w

like why is he losing interest? no clue lmfao i just have been feeling like he's not in love recently yk

Anonymous

OP 2w

Maybe he’s not losing interest and he is just secure. Tbh giving guys some time to themselves lets you work on yourself too and also then they are more excited to see you again (this is coming from a girl with anxious attachment whose boyfriend said the exact same thing lol)

Anonymous

#2 2w

okay okay thank you so much

Anonymous

#3 2w

i mean he doesn't look at me the way he used to, he doesn't do little things that he used to

Anonymous

OP 2w

you guys might just be leaving the honeymoon stage. if you want him to do the things he used to you could bring it up! he probably doesn’t realize. but if those are the only two things, that just sounds like what happens when people settle into a long term relationship. if he’s still making efforts to see you and talk to you then there’s nothing to worry about. if you want to keep the spark alive you can plan date nights or try new intimate things if you’d like