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I’ve been slowly trying to separate myself from a friend of a few years bc they’re not emotionally mature and draining the life out of me. They say they’re gonna change and never do. But I genuinely still care so idk what to do. I wish her the best but..
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Anonymous 1d

Trust me, girl, tell her and leave. This is so unhealthy for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m just scared it’ll make it worse for her and I do NOT want that by any means. we’ve worked at the same jobs for 4 years almost 5 now (2 different jobs, both of us same place) so it’ll make things awkward as shit. Last time I tried to speak up she got pissed AT WORK

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’s not your responsibility or your fault to worry about what happens after. You’re being manipulated by her. It’s so obvious, especially if it’s at work. She’s hurting you and you’re just gonna let her because “she might get her feelings hurt”? If she was gonna change, she would. If she cared, she wouldn’t act the way she does. Leave her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Do not be afraid to ruffle feathers. You come first. That isn’t selfish to choose your health.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank you ❤️ it got to a point where she was telling our coworkers HER side of things without naming me, and they would agree with her. Then they would unknowingly tell me the story and go “oh, she was talking about you?” And side with me. It’s just overall draining.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Girl that is noooot your friend!

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