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Every time my friend gets a new man she completely adopts his personality and automatically becomes obsessed w his hobbies, today she started mansplaining Pearl Harbor to me bc he is a history nerd it’s getting really annoying but am I the problem here
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Anonymous 2w

No. In fact if I were you I’d probably be mean and learn everything about history since the dawn of time or drop her because I don’t like chameleons

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Anonymous 2w

No she might just be down bad and not know how to be her true self around a guy

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Anonymous 2w

you’re not the problem but being annoying isn’t a crime either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Months ago she didn’t care about baseball but all of a sudden became obsessed with the stats, now has an acquired taste in 70s music etc like it gives pick me vibes and it’s 24/7 but i hate that i feel this way lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Well it’s like my great grandfather brought home a soldiers sword when he fought in Japan (it’s now in a museum) so it rlly ticked me off that she thought she knew more even tho it sounds dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Totally valid how you feel. I think she’s just building off what ever men say they like. Which is unfortunate but it happens.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s not dumb. It’s knowing how she is and then watching her fit a thousand pairs of shoes for a man and that bleeds into YOUR friendship in very irritating ways. Which is pretty much a dick move

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Very true I’m probably annoying in ways I don’t even realize too but she used to be herself. now she’s just becoming so male centered bc she’s dating again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah truly I don’t think she’s meaning to be this way but she only recently started getting more male attention so maybe it’s just getting to her head? I had this phase too but when I was younger… She started watching sex in the city this summer and went haywire

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’d say either mention this to her or unfortunately wait for it to run its course

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

We were having wine one night and I went “omg ur soww differennttt” being kinda petty and she thought I was being serious. Like validating that she’s not like other girls. and somehow this male dream girl bc she likes dad rock and college athletics.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah girl I don’t mean “you’re different”😭😂😂. I mean more “you are making whatever your current man’s interest is your whole personality and it’s weird. Can you just be real with me and like that with him?”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

But the story just thickens and gets a little bit crazier

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