
ik that i’m very straight passing bc i like dressing fem but with a kind of granola flair and ppl will still assume im straight, so i feel like the only signal would be if i started dressing more masc yk? i do already act and have more tom-boyish mannerisms, but instead of non-hetero girls thinking i might be gay, i’m either “trying to fit in w guys” (said by girls) or it’s just men calling me lesbian as an insult but without even realizing that i do in fact like women…