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should i become masc
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Anonymous 1d

I have been masc for forever besides my goth stint (still alt but couldnt do the lace anymore) ama im an open book and i have all the pros, cons, advice, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ik that i’m very straight passing bc i like dressing fem but with a kind of granola flair and ppl will still assume im straight, so i feel like the only signal would be if i started dressing more masc yk? i do already act and have more tom-boyish mannerisms, but instead of non-hetero girls thinking i might be gay, i’m either “trying to fit in w guys” (said by girls) or it’s just men calling me lesbian as an insult but without even realizing that i do in fact like women…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Yeah its kind of tough, im like so fucking butch and ppl still sometimes think im a straight woman lmao. Its hard to try and signal queerness without just grabbing onto stereotypes that may or may not feel like good representations of ourselves

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