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I genuinely get so pissed off when my girlfriends can’t do physical stuff like why can’t you jump?? Why do you run so slow?? What do you mean you can’t lift 25 pounds are you a fucking child??? Are you trying to be cute
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Anonymous 21w

I mean I get like wanting your friends to be healthy and strong and able to do stuff with you but the way you said this is mean

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Anonymous 21w

No I totally get this like why are you okay with not being able to perform basic functions? Why are you okay with being physically helpless??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

They fully can’t jump like can’t get their feet in the air or skip it blows me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Can you jump

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Some ppl physically are unable to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Be so fr rn. Yes I can jump. I work a job with fitness requirements so I'm fine. Bodies are weird though and you never know someone's relationship with their body or fitness or anything that goes along with that. You can encourage them to stay active and do stuff with you but if ur being rude about it ur not a very nice friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

I totally get this sentiment and to an extent agree but the mental hurdle of starting to get more in shape is huge and it can be really hard for some people to get into the routine. Yall lack empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Things that seem basic to you may not be for others. At its core there's nothing wrong with wanting your friends to be healthy and active but the way you're speaking down about them over this is wildly immature and lacking empathy and perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

You are talking about being in shape I’m talking about JUMPING I’m not body shaming them but jumping is intrinsic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

I literally don't know what you mean they can't jump. Unless they legit have osteoporosis or muscle wasting or something they can definitely jump

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

What jumping are you talking about? Like box jumping? Hurdle jumping or just like regular doing a little hop

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Like they literally can’t jump at all perfectly healthy can’t jump

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Hop!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Not to be a hater but I don't believe you. Like they def can they just don't. And also how did you discover this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

We saw a hopscotch board when we were out and they couldn’t hop so I asked them to jump as high as they could and they just couldn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Yeah so as long as they're generally in good health they should def be able to do hopscotch. I feel like it's more likely they didn't want to rather than they physically couldn't

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Bro you actually just can’t accept a situation for what it is they were also confused that they couldn’t jump we spent another ten minutes trying to teach them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I'm not saying I don't accept it per se just that I find it extremely hard to believe that without any physical illness or condition that someone in good health can't physically hop. I think it's more likely that they weren't into the hopscotch or some weird niche like how some people never learn to ride a bike. But I feel like they probably physically CAN hop because it's literally just taking a step but bigger in at least one direction

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Because there's no reason they shouldn't be able to jump barring a disability or illness. And so at that point you're right it's not fineness its ability. Which would make me think there's something wrong with them health wise

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