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The bathroom door lock is broken and both of my parents don’t care that I’m not comfortable with them going to the bathroom while I take a shower and think that it’s fine because we’re family and they’re not looking.
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Anonymous 3w

Oh I forgot to say that it’s a shower like this, not even a curtain

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Anonymous 3w

put something to block the door or lock it, my mom got me a portable lock bc mine was broken at my dad’s and anytime i’m like going somewhere i bring it just in case

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah I guess but the problem is I’ve gone out of my way to block the door a couple times and they always get mad at me and are like “I need to go to the bathroom, don’t do that!!”… like we have another bathroom without a shower. I know you have to go to the basement but our house is small and you could be in the basement in an extra 20 seconds oh my god

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

nah bc that’s so invasive, like ig if you can’t keep them out then hang smt on the shower?? to block it but still like that’s so weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I think they just have a superiority complex sometimes it ngl bc I can even just be going to the bathroom and they’ll be all like genuinely upset demanding to go to the bathroom.. like let me finish wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

girl i feel so bad wtf, like when i started fighting back against my parents, esp my mom (my dad and i are chill) it definitely made things more heated but it also helped me be able to fight for boundaries?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Oh I’ve tried about lots of things and it always escalates to me crying and being made to feel stupid while half of me believes it and half of me is like no fuck you 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

But tbh I hate our relationship bc it’s like one of those relationships you see where they are perfect a lot of the time and get along so well until you’re reminded that they’re actually kinda awful then you forgive them the next day and the cycle continues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

omg honestly mine used to be like that any but since i moved in with my dad, it’s been weird. i stayed there for a couple weeks and instantly became super depressed, isolated, and suicidal😭😭 im supposed to go back in like 2 weeks to take care of of my mom after her surgery but im like why tf can’t my brothers who are there take care of her??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No I feel like that bc I was so happy when I lived with my friends. Now it’s like I’m back to my high school self and I thought I was just a depressing person in general before I moved away. But I was different when I was away. But I cant afford to live away anymore..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

exactly!!! you get it!! the only difference is that i’m still depressed but like less so a win is a win??

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