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Why do some of you women not realize you can be married with kids and be in college and not be in your 30s 🙃
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Anonymous 12w

Bruh actually I’m 22 & married and every time I mention it ppl are like “HUSBAND???” “Why r u still on this app” IM STILL A COLLEGE STUDENT 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 12w

Idk if you’re referencing something specific but that’s not rlly the norm these days so if you hear a woman is married with kids you’ll likely assume she’s older since that is often the case

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Anonymous 12w

That’s insane work.

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Anonymous 12w

i think a lot of people think about their school community on this app which is a bunch of 17-22 yr olds with the occasional grad student and unless u go to college in utah it’s not normal to be married

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I had a couple girls messaging me about how I'm a creep for being on here and that I was groomed because I married young etc just dogging on me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

What being married with kids in your 20s?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Yeah it’s crazy to jump to those kinds of conclusions

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 12w

I'm 26 married at 21, and I have two kids and for some reason that bothers people. Someone told me my husband groomed me.....

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

I can understand that, but to tell me I'm a creep, that I was groomed etc is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’ve heard the grooming thing too lmaoooo or asking if I was Mormon 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 12w

I don't get it, why do they automatically assume those things. Like it's possible I'm just in love and we wanted to start our life and family

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

yea that’s crazy just assuming there’s a large age gap between yall😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

No not at all, I'm a year older than my spouse.

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 12w

Same!!! WTF I JUST POSTED RHIS

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 12w

You’re younger than me I’m 23 and not married 😭 we all move at different paces

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