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so my “friend” didn’t invite me to her wedding. granted i took the semester off but she invited another girl whom she had only known for 4 months. she’s 19, marrying a guy she knew for 5 months in august close to my birthday, and she’s rushing cus she
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Anonymous 20w

Maybe just keep a distance, but offer support if she needs it. Cops are famous for being domestic abusers

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Anonymous 20w

wants to lose her virginity. she dropped out after our freshman year. no degree, no nothing, just gonna be living with her stranger of a cop husband. i’m not sure how to feel because it was super weird and random for her to not invite me but she also claims to be my rlly good friend so

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Anonymous 20w

Maybe she is being isolated to a degree from the future husband, or maybe she sees you aren’t as over the moon as some other ppl are. I also had a friend plan a wack wedding and had to plead her not to do it on my b day. Claimed to be my bff for yesrs. But we are distant asf now. I’d say address it. See a cause. And let them go if it’s not worth it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I guess infamous would be a better term

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

omg, that’s gonna be a hard knock life for her…one argument away from abuse or homelessness

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Hopefully she will still be working, if he decides he’s done she needs to be able to support herself. Scary stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

she doesn’t believe in working…that’s why she dropped out of school haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

she said she rlly likes the traditional lifestyle. which i get. but there’s no fallback yk? no degree, no money, just living in a small house in a college town with ur husband trying to make ends meet. and this is the same friend that judged me hard for going to the beach as a first date with a guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Welp thats the perfect setup for a man who wants a maid/slave. Hope she stays safe

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

that’s so fucked up. she tried planning it on halloween at first but that’s our muta best friend’s birthday and she tried to hide it from everyone but then she changed her mind to not be messy ig. probably keeping the wedding from me cus she knows what i would think esp after months of judging me and not being super amazing to me (not wanting to give me that ammo to retaliate is my guess) but she’s also js not a great human being in general which is why i’m not fighting it or sad or addressing i

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I’m proud you made that choice, it’s best to cut the loss esp if they didn’t really put value on you in a friendship. Weddings are overrated when we’re young anyways trust

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

thank you for validating how i felt

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