Anonymous #1 12w

This is such a wild take ngl. It feels so controlling to dictate how ppl live like that. Genuinely how is it cheating? Is it an insecurity thing? I do not understand

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Anonymous #2 12w

Bc part of a relationship is sexual needs its not controlling its literally what your partner is there for 😭 as I said everyones different if you find that controlling then find a partner who doesnt agree with me the point of my comment was communication not to debate my personal opinion

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Anonymous #1 12w

Your partner probably isn’t going to be in the mood 24/7, if both people decide porn is cheating to them that’s fine but everyone’s relationship is different and those boundaries should be established, not assumed

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Anonymous OP 12w

Which is what I said verbatim "you should be discussing these things with your partner. Everyone views it differently"

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Anonymous #1 12w

That’s what my post said, it’s not cheating no matter your gender unless you mutually agree that it is

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Anonymous OP 12w

Yes so I dont understand why youre dick riding me abt it when I agreed with you in the first place 💀 our personal opinions differ and I used that as an example of why youre correct

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Anonymous #1 12w

A partner being the sole provider of sexual satisfaction puts undue pressure on them imo, and isnt fair to either party. Esp if one person has kinks the other doesnt like, they should be able to engage with that kink themselves

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Anonymous #2 12w

Yes. Which is why I said everyone is different and you should communicate to find a compatible partner. Im not gonna keep reexplaining myself when we literally agree and you guys are dickriding me for no reason lmfao

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