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honestly one major reason as to why i’m not religious is because MOST religions are heavily anti-women/against women. most of their “teachings” are built on enforcing a strong patriarchy while women are constantly degraded at the bottom. no thank you.
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Anonymous 40w

people somehow always take the worst aspects from religion without taking any of the actual teachings. at this point religion has been pretty thoroughly ruined for me.

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Anonymous 40w

bring back the goddesses! i feel the same way about the abrahamic religions and that’s why i’m spiritual. i also know a few people who work with deities like Aphrodite or Hekate and have altars for them. as a woman, connecting with the divine feminine has given me more faith than main stream religion ever could. i will never worship a man. you should look into other forms of spirituality <3

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Anonymous 40w

I get it that’s why I do my own thing

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Anonymous 40w

EXACTLYYY

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Anonymous 40w

This doesn’t help.

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Anonymous 40w

If religion ever feels derogatory, it’s the person teaching you the religion not god. But, that’s my personal belief.

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Anonymous 40w

i’m catholic, and i completely understand your point. a lot of the translations of the bible are deeply misogynistic because of the people translating them, especially the king james version. i understand and recognize that, which unfortunately a lot of people in my religion don’t. there are also so many badass women in the bible who get completely ignored which is super annoying! these woman saved their people and they get skipped over!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 40w

any time i start to find comfort in catholicism again i remind myself of the ways it’s been used to reinforce the subjugation of women and it snaps me out of it LOL

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Anonymous 40w

the modesty talk honest to god gives me the heebie jeebies with the way i’ve seen ADULT MEN call literal children immodest for showing their hair or legs (if they’re wearing shorts or a swimsuit)… EUGH it just reeks of pedophilic rape culture to me ☹️

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Anonymous 40w

i thought god was real and i thought i was gonna burn in hell for being queer 😭. that shit ruined like 16+ years of my life and i've spent the last 6-7 just undoing the damage the best i can.

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Anonymous 40w

it's just very frustrating. if there's one thing i'd take from my experience being religious it's that Jesus would hate a lot of his current day "supporters".

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Anonymous 40w

it's just so AAAAAAAHHHH thanks for listening to my ted talk 💕

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Anonymous 40w

Can’t ignore the biblical commands and acceptance for slavery, genocide, infanticide/familicide, ableism, racism….

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 40w

jael killed an enemy general when he slept in her tent for the night. judith beheaded the general of the army that was surrounding her city. the point of these stories is to not underestimate women and then people in my religion go and underestimate us anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 40w

downvoted for saying i agree with the point op is making. okay!

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Anonymous 40w

But… collective punishment is so great! 🥺 /major sarcasm

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 40w

The original languages are incredible misogynistic as well. Because it was written by people to harm others and gain control. 93-103 named women, compared to almost 2000 men.

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Anonymous 40w

Never has, never will. But it’s biblical so it must be all right? 🙄

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Anonymous 40w

and i’m happy for you! if religion isn’t your thing, i respect that! i don’t go to mass anymore. yeah, sure, some people will call me not a real catholic, but my belief that that my faith is between me and God.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 40w

and that sucks. i think the bible should be taken for it’s morals, like “love others” and not literally. growing up, the stories of the badass women were literally all i had (all the tv shows i was allowed to watch didn’t have main character women) as so i think about them a lot.

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Anonymous 40w

i understand that!! my original comment wasn’t disagreeing with you in any way. i also wish people would understand and accept criticism. nothing that involves humans is perfect, and that includes organized religion

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 40w

and also thank your for telling me that! i always though it was the translations are misogynistic, not the original language.

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Anonymous 40w

I follow Hinduism and I could give you scientific reasons for almost any problem you could point out in the religion. A lot of it has been sneaked in by priests that had propaganda or evil intentions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 40w

Sorry, I should’ve mentioned that before. 😭

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Anonymous 40w

Some culture not religion. As someone who hates serving men. 🫶

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Anonymous 40w

I mean Indian culture is supportive of the patriarchal imposition on women. Hinduism is not. I won’t argue because of what I’ve learned in my religion. I’m not aware of the intricacies of Christianity and am not commenting on it. Or any other religion for that matter. If this is pissing you off, that isn’t my intention. But, I’m just trying to put my truth out there.

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Anonymous 40w

Also, some Indian culture, not all. We have a lot of notable people who have worked for women and supported their progress in society. Some def hold back women into boxes to serve men at their pleasure.

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Anonymous 40w

I did not originally say what about. I said if. Plus a lot of Christianity was also built around the head of church and head of state. Which surprise surprise, were men. With propaganda. You’re just angry with a very closed mind.

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