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as someone who’s going into research i could never take my husbands last name. imagine people citing your work and it’s HIS NAME in the reference. hell no
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Anonymous 3w

See the thing is I don’t want my grandfather’s name cited in my research I’d much rather have the name of a man I chose and love if I gotta have a man’s last name cited. And at the end of the day. Your maiden name is still a man’s name.

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Anonymous 3w

Petition to change your name and make your last name what YOU want, separate from any guys. 💃🏼

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Anonymous 3w

Actually then it’s in your father’s name so

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Anonymous 3w

my husband is taking my last name. even if we are married when he decided he wants to pursue education, i would want him to have all his accomplishments written in his own name if he wants. i dont understand why men who have that mindset are still so hard to find.

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Anonymous 3w

I struggle with this so hard bc I don’t like our names hyphenated but I don’t want HIS name on my medical degree but some things were more difficult growing up with a mom with a different last name than me, she always had to prove she was my mom and had her name changed. Which like I totally get for safety but it was just an annoying hoop to jump thru all the time and I don’t want to deal w that w my kids. Ugh❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 3w

I get the point but I didn’t take my partners last name because mine is just way cooler. His is a very basic short name and mine is a long pretty German one. Your last name is from a man either way just pick one you like lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Ok this is fair.. my last name is that of an unfaithful man and his unfaithful father…… I think I just grieve not being the same me I’ve been thru my whole life. But I guess becoming A.B. doesn’t mean I’m not still foundationally A.A. But will my work previous to marriage still link up to my wiki page after? Maybe that’s what OP is getting at. Though “A. Bee (formerly A. Ay)” isn’t hard to add I guess.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I want my last name to be my man’s :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I mean if the concern is specifically Wikipedia… you can edit that yourself. Or make a request or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

YESS my mom did this after getting divorced instead of going back to her maiden name

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

my dad has like no money but spent all the money from my grandma’s inheritance on me going to school so i’m fine with that personally since i wouldn’t be doing any of this without him. but i def see how it could be different for people with tough family relationships

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