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Anonymous 21h

a lot of men def have done those things, but so many are obsessed with bringing it up because they have no idea what actually constitutes as SA/SH/rape, and see a real accusation and think “but that’s not a crime” when it is. so they inflate the false accusation thing because they’ve seen REAL cases they consider to be “false accusations”

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Anonymous 22h

but ofc it’s somehow a woman’s fault anyway 🙄

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Anonymous 12h
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Anonymous 21h

Purposefully touching a strangers ass is sexual battery*

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Anonymous 15h

is it sa if one of your male friends pushes his dick up against you from behind?

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Anonymous 21h

1000000000%

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Anonymous 1h

“rape allegations will ruin a man’s life” but they get no consequences for their actions half of the time

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Anonymous 7h

Someone I know got falsely accused last week. It’s pretty common.

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Anonymous 11h

Calling some of these things rape is disrespect to women who have actually gone through rape. Do not shun them. Also “most men” is simply incorrect.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

like I JUST saw a post where people were saying it wasn’t sexual harassment to have sex in your bedroom while your roommate’s sleeping there. people don’t know what these things are, it’s infuriating

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Anonymous 20h

all of them

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Anonymous 20h

also why does that matter? why is that the first thing you ask? men of every race rape and abuse women

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

yeah bc centuries of oppression and poverty and colonization definitely had nothing to do with this. do you even care about the women being raped in these areas? or the people being killed? or do you just want to be racist?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h
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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

what’s your excuse for most school shooters and family annihilators being white men? since you wanna ignore everything i’m saying anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Not that oppression isn’t a horrible thing, but Thailand, Japan, and Liberia were never colonized and all three turned out quite differently. South America was primary colonized by Catholics etc… it does seem to have some effect, but the causal link as the sole reason for a nation doing poorly does not appear to exist.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

all three of those countries suffered under severe foreign influence tbf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

That one is also a specified data set. Again, while the numbers appear heavy in one direction, it still doesn’t create a complete causal link between skin color and propensity towards violence. I would tell you what does, but the world doesn’t seem to be ready for that conversation yet (it’s not racial).

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

That’s true. The longer a nation exists the more likely it’s going to have foreign influence especially since the Industrial Revolution. There are very few untouched cultures left in the world.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

listing a bunch of attacks with zero statistics lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

also, “the first World Trade Center attack were by Muslims” like no shit, the US gave violent extremists guns then directly antagonized them. it was our government’s utter incompetence that caused it, but sure, blame an entire people for a small group.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

You realize that’s the other side of the coin in the overarching argument being made. To blame all men, including the men who would kill the rapists, is blaming an entire group of people for a small group.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

You’re right in the US there is a very specific group doing most of the SA. White American men. And I tried to find a world wide one but there’s no tracking data for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

What’s schrodingers breakfast?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

This isn’t a SA specific data breakdown, it’s all sexual offenses, and I would be willing to bet #5 is going to make the per capita argument. If I had to deep dive all sexual offenses data… actually nvm I’ll just ask the AI to run the numbers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

Well that’s something I wasn’t aware of. Seems like the white male perverts are combated by Chris Hanson types whereas Native American’s somehow account for most of the rape cases? That has to heavy because the jurisdiction of native land is covered by the federal government.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Or at least “largely in part that native land is covered by the federal government*”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

And there’s WAYYYYY more that are white Christian’s. What’s your point?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

posting random shit then refusing to elaborate

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Idk seems kinda relative. This is one of the first times anyone has posted details of the case to Yikyak I’ve seen yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

it sheds light on barely anything at best, and it’s a red herring at worst. sharing unimportant details with no explanation actively detracts from the discussion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

If I was a criminal investigator assigned this case, and that was part of her testimony, it would be near impossible for me to get a conviction for aggravated rape. I could potentially still get a charge to stick for sexual assault, but additional details and who the jury was would be critical factors.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

consenting to one person isnt the same as consenting to all of them, also she was severely under the influence 😭 she could not consent. this part is still irrelevant when she did not consent. I imagine #2 only posted it because he finds the gay part funny. I doubt he’s put much thought into it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

She consented to multiple threesomes. And consented to more after that night with the same people. But sure she was raped and the Cornell 7 deserve to have their lives ruined

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

you cannot consent under the influence it’s that easy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Wait sorry what’s the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Depends on if it’s state or federal but last time the broad study between the two was done and reported back to us, “sexual assault included an attempt of penetration however slight” where as battery was unwanted/undesired/non-consensual contact with a sexual body part. Simple battery would just be contact like grabbing someone by the wrist to prevent them from leaving, or shoving someone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

yeah its not rape and race, its culture. just have to look back at how many different cultures see rape

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 15h

“Is sexual assault sexual assault in this situation” yes. Dense asf

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 15h

Could potentially get a sexual battery charge if yall were both fully clothed and the defense attorney made the argument there was no possible way you could be penetrated. Open’s the perpetrator up to having his junk examined. If yall were both naked, could be sexual assault. Communal shower type situation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

i’m just asking geez

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

yeah it happened a few years ago, can’t do anything about it now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 14h

My bad. Sounded at first like all these smart ass men in the comments. If that happened to you then yeah I would consider that SA bc it’s physical but #4 is right they could do Secual harassment

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

So i guess we can’t read? Because the two things that I said were rape are legally classified as rape and the other things I mentioned, I clarified it was sexual assault or harassment. And i was saying most of the men who have done those things are being forced to realize it was rape/SA/SH.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

As a rape victim and someone who has good reading comprehension OP said nothing offensive

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

Ty 🫶

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