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Girl Talk 11w
I do enjoy my own company and isolation a lot bc people drain my energy but I still want a small close group of friends I really miss it although i feel sad when people don’t include me or single me out bc it takes a lot out of me to make new friends now
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Anonymous 11w

same :/ i have a lovely friend group but i almost never get to see them in person, it’d be nice to just be able to go out sometimes with a group or have group plans

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Anonymous 11w

i feel youuuu i thought id made a good friend, but that ended badly cus ppl told her rumors and she believed them instead of talking to me directly. i typically only talk to my bf, brothers, or my mentor and i love them each immensely but i want a life long bestie something they all have except me 😭😭

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Anonymous 11w

I had a sort of close trio group w 2 other girls but they were closer together and always singled me out and it really hurt me …

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yes exactly!! What I really need are a group of low maintenance friendships w ppl who still want to hang out— but I don’t like it when I have to make all the plans while they make plans w other people and not me idk why that happens I really do try but I’m getting tired of trying all the time….. :( that’s why I always return to isolating myself. esp bc I’m also neurodivergent (too many unspoken social rules)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I stopped texting them now they won’t ever text me and at first when they saw me they always say “oh we should totally hang out soon” “oh we haven’t talked in a while” but they never said yes to any plans or anything and only hung w eachother.. why even try to include me if ur acting that way… :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

maybe I did something wrong.. but ofc they won’t ever tell me, it feels like they never valued me to begin with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

DUDE I RELATE TO THIS, I’m so sorry I know how it feels and hate it, it feels like they just needed an excuse to hate u but never confront u abt anything or try to clear it up— so sorry it rlly sucks 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I literalllt don’t have any irl friends now… I feel depressed and don’t even want to go out..

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