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I hate when I try to start an argument with my bf and he just calmly deescalates the situation like boy fuck you honestly
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Anonymous 9w

It pisses me off and i think i overreacted every time….maybe i am 🥸

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Anonymous 9w

deescalating a situation is good, brushing off your concerns is not. either you’re communicating in a way that isn’t helpful for the situation or he is being dismissive and rude

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Anonymous 9w

... ? why are you starting arguments

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Anonymous 9w

Ew

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Anonymous 9w

no i know what you mean. like it might sound toxic, but sometimes i just wanna argue!!! even about nothing! sometimes i just need to blow off steam from other stressors in my life and i know that even if we argue we’ll be fine after.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

.... 😭 this is not normal and you should seek professional help

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Ooo yeah and im menace to my bf and saying this…🙂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

For fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Literallyyy arguing is so satisfying sometimes likeeee cmon just humor me 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

girl just argue online like the rest of us 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

right😭😭if you have the urge to argue do it with ppl who dont matter, not someone ur in a relationship with

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Not as satisfying people online are stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

no tf we’re not and it’s problematic to suggest that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

So update i did argue and it has turned into a whole thing now🙂

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