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Tell me why I’m left on fucking opened… like why are men like this? Just fucking commit to me since we’ve been talking for 2.5 months at this point
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Anonymous 4w

you’ve given him long enough to ask you to be his gf I’d keep my options open as well

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Anonymous 4w

They act like it’s gonna kill them. We’re not asking for much just a label/commitment.

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Anonymous 4w

you need to bring up with him how he sees it going between yall and let him know what you want from this. stop living in such blurred lines waiting for him to do it and do it yourself. save yourself from all this stress of not knowing and get ur answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Genuinely, it’s like he already calls me whenever he’s in trouble and I’m there and I call him whenever I need help and he’s right there, it’s like why can’t you just commit when we already have so much going for us.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I try to give it time because my last relationship was rushed into and I ended up with a lot of trauma…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You can commit and take things slow at the same time. Don’t use that as an excuse for him. Especially when you’re expecting it now and double especially if he’s been getting boyfriend privileges. after a certain amount of time I wouldn’t even want it any more, 3 months is crazy hope you don’t plan on waiting and twirling your hair much longer and if you do at least date other people ..

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’ve been careful to not give him “boyfriend privileges” without the label. I’m giving him until the end of the college semester and we will see if something gives.

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