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girls i need help. i have a crush on two guys who are best friends and one of them asked me if i like or did like his friend, i just said i did. then he asked if im over him, i said “mm in a way”. in reality i like both, so he asked am i giving up on him+
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Anonymous 1d

Do both of them like you?

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Anonymous 1d

and he just asked me do i wanna give up on him, and hes telling me how he’s such a good guy and such like um hello i got a crush on you too not just your friend idk what to say

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Anonymous 1d

just tell them u like them both and ask if u can date them both 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 1d

+and i said “i honestly don’t know”. idk what to doooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yes in their own ways, one of them is quiet about it and the other kinda shows it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

Believe it or not I’ve been in this situation before but it was more than 2😅. The way I made my decision was seeing which one best fit my date to marry dating goal and which one is realistically my type not too dependent on attraction but values and the way they treat me and how they resolve issues. Then I let things play out with the one I really liked he eventually asked me out then the others I met up with them and let em know we can either stay friends or not and I let them know boundaries.😊

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