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I like this guy and he’s older than me, (for ref, I’m 19 he’s 22) and sometimes I feel like I act too immature for him, I don’t even know but he’s also dry but I think it’s because he hates texting Someone slime me out I’m supposed to be a single badass ☹️
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Anonymous 17h

Don’t be too hard on yourself, it’s a much bigger maturity gap than you’d think. I dated a 22yo at 19 and i don’t think I was ever taken seriously or seen as an equal. Now I’m almost 22 and would never think to go near a 19 yo in that sense. Each situation is different tho so I’m not saying you’re doomed or anything.

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah that’s a rough one to be in

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Anonymous 1d

Got u

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Anonymous 21h

as a 22 year old myself, 19 and 22 are kind of vastly different stages in life, and rather than actual number differences, i find it’s best to be dating someone that’s taking the same strides as you. i’m a completely different person than i was 3 years ago- i’m so much more confident in my own skin, i know how to say no to people, and i’m more sure about my path in life. take this time now to learn how to be discerning with your partners, and discover more of yourself :)

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Anonymous 20h

Wow girly I’m in the same situation I feel your pain 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

amen to this

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

I hear this, it’s just he’ll take at least 30 minutes to respond to a text or even longer but we’ll call and he’d be the sweetest ever. So many mixed signals and when I’m drunk he’ll stay on the phone overnight to make sure I’m okay and shit. Idek bro these men got me losing it 😭

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