Girl Talk on Sidechat | no shade but i actually DON’T want to have a full conversation with you in my dms. i don’t care if you’re a girl or not. we can have a conversation in my comments.

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Girl Talk 6d

no shade but i actually DON’T want to have a full conversation with you in my dms. i don’t care if you’re a girl or not. we can have a conversation in my comments.

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Anonymous 6d

No literally cuz it’s already an anon app so wtf you’re trying to say that needs to be more secret weirdo

Anonymous 6d

Ok but like whenever someone DM’s me off of a post for no reason I literally just assume that they are a man. Like what are you saying to me that you can’t say in a public comment section bro

Anonymous 6d

full shade!!! this is an anon app!! wtf do u want "privacy" by dm-ing me for?? just stay anonymous!

Anonymous 6d

Not to mention it’s most likely not even a girl and are likely gonna turn things sexual

Anonymous 6d

I don’t mind if someone wants to have a genuine conversation about something but it DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL when random ass men just dm me “hi” and “wyd”

Anonymous 6d

I have had a convo with a genuine woman (also I’m tired of half of them pretending to be women) once and it was a nice long convo about how I lost 50 lbs healthily

Anonymous 6d

Nah i disagree ill have a convo in my dms

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Anonymous

#1 6d

DEADASS like are we serious? unless i explicitly tell someone to dm me, i don’t want it.

Anonymous

#3 6d

I’ve tried to respond a few times thinking they’re women, and surprise, they wanna turn the convo all sexual still under the guise of being a woman

Anonymous

#3 6d

And that was bc we were talking back and forth in the comments like 20 times and probably annoying everyone with notifs

Anonymous

#3 6d

yeah exactly. it’s weird.

Anonymous

#2 6d

i mean nah not full shade bc this isn’t meant to be rude or mean i’m just saying it how it is fr

Anonymous

#4 6d

THIS.

Anonymous

OP 6d

Idk I personally don’t mind it. Obviously if it’s a man or someone dming me for weird reasons I just block but I’ve have had genuine conversations with ppl. I guess sometimes ppl just don’t want to talk about that specific thing in the comments bc they don’t want outside commentary? I think that’s valid

Anonymous 6d

Yeah idk I guess it differs from person I personally don’t mind as long as the person asks before hand if they can dm me or if they’re not being weird

Anonymous

#7 6d

okay

Anonymous

#7 6d

man alert

Anonymous

OP 6d

👍

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Anonymous

#7 6d

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

Anonymous

#2 6d

nah fr

Anonymous

OP 6d

No guys im literally a girl ive had long convos w people in dms I literally just dont see any problem w it

Anonymous

OP 6d

Like no hate

Anonymous

#7 6d

i personally hate it and assume anyone that dms me from this forum is a man

Anonymous 6d

Plus there’s a feature where you can turn dms off?

Anonymous 6d

Fair but I feel like this is an easily solvable issue. You have complete control over who messages you by either blocking, not responding, or turning DMs off 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous 6d

Right but that’s not going to stop ppl from DMing which is why I posed those examples as alternatives since you seem distraught over this 😭

Anonymous 6d

Message received lol I’m just providing a solution for ppl who wanted to stop it from happening I’m not trying to police what other ppl do

Anonymous 6d

Hope things get better for you

Anonymous

OP 6d

I get that a lot of my conversations are like intimate like about what school they go to in the major that they’re in or like family stuff like we dont need an audience