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Quick question for da ladies ! What one is better
#poll
Will you be my girlfriend
Can I be your boyfriend
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Anonymous 4w

will you be my girlfriend: reinforces standards of patriarchy that women are property to be owned can i be your boyfriend: comes across as you see it as an honor to be the lady’s significant other and are willing to make sacrifices for her

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Anonymous 4w

if she’s more traditional then 1 but if not then 2

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Anonymous 4w

i don’t think any woman minds the first option, BUT if she’s woke she’ll really appreciate your choice of words with the second option

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Anonymous 4w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

But does one sound less like a man?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

this is the question you ask after i tell you one of the options implies that women are property to he owned???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Well yes😂 some people might view it different.. I’m just asking for suggestions and trying to see both sides. Right now all the votes are about 50% 50%

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

two people vs the 21 people that upvoted my comment. we are confusing submissiveness and pathetic-ness with chivalry bro we are so cooked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Over all in voting it’s 287 to 245 with “ will you be my girlfriend” ahead but I’m leaning towards the other one just depends what it looks like on a sign or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

But also “Can I be your boyfriend?” can feel a little unsure like you’re asking for permission rather than stating what you want

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