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Girl Talk 5w
i was 12. he was a senior in high school 🥲 (this is the earliest one i can remember)
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Anonymous 5w

Tbh, 18… but that came with its own bullshit lol. I was just in a really sheltered environment so I accepted almost all attention for the first two years I was an adult, and struggling with that for a while after. I’m grateful grown ass men didn’t have access to me then but I wish I’d had some exposure to teen romance before I was an adult 😭

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Anonymous 5w

Well if we are talking about genuine memories, then probably around 12? Guys in my grade being gross. But for the things I don’t remember, around 8 years old.

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Anonymous 5w

Honestly around 6 and it was my friend’s dad. Around 9 collage aged guys started to make comments and advances towards me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

honestly that sounds like it was maybe partially for the better, but yeah i get the fomo with teen romance stuff. my situation was odd, i got unwanted attention from like 12-15, then i turned 16 and i finally wanted the attention, but wasn’t getting it lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I think in ways it was, in others I thought I was hideous until I got on bumble when I was 18, got love bombed by the first guy that asked me out, and ended up being cheated on and emotionally abused for a few months and that kinda fucked my foundation for relationships for a while 😭 I was just inexperienced and naive and I guess I wish I had age-appropriate exposure before then to prepare me. I’m so sorry you had that experience also, 12-15 you were literally a kid and after that I definitely-

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Get the feeling of that

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