
i’m always hesitant to “start something” with people i’m stuck in close proximity too tbh because in my experience a lot of people are reactive/vindictive and might decide to, instead of being decent human beings, retaliate by being even louder unfortunately also it may just be the way your building is built making it sound a lot worse than it is
i'd make a nice note like maybe hey i completely get this building was made horribly, but can you try being a little softer with your movements in the apartment at night? completely get if you already are and it's just the way this place was made, but just thought i'd reach out and see