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Ex situation ship offered a free 2 day trip. He destroyed my ability to love but the sex was good. Been horny for weeks and considering it. Should I?
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Anonymous 2w

No ur just ovulating

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Anonymous 2w

absolutely not. you’re gonna feel like shit afterwards

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Anonymous 2w

girl no. don't fuck up ur healing and go back to that place with him. if u want a situationship, then go find a new man to fuck that hasn't already fucked u up ONCE. don't let him get u TWICE girl. fool me once shame on u, fool me twice can't put the blame on u. don't be dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

But it’s a free trip. Feel like it’ll give me closure in some way. Like I talked to him yesterday and as I suspected he hasn’t changed and it feels like relief that I know this now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I feel like I need a situationship rn, it’s gone past the ovulation. I’m so flustered 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I tried finding another guy. They don’t want me. I’m not good enough for them. I never am. I’m scared but also I want to see him again too but I lost all feelings for him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

it won't get u closure. no one can give u closure but urself. ur gonna be crying and distraught at the end of the trip wondering why he doesn't want to be with u. ur not unlovable and continuing to choose someone who DID NOT CHOOSE U once is not going to be good for u in any way. this is going to take back any healing that uve done and ur lying to urself if u think it wont. go buy a toy and get on the apps

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

going on this trip is self sabotage

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

You know, I needed this. I’m not going to say I’m not delusional anymore but you’re so right. I keep downplaying how much he hurt me.

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