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I feel like I’m never gonna find someone because my standards are too high and my expectations too low. I was raised to find someone as kind as my dad, but I’ve been treated so awfully my most of my past partners my expectations are just in the gutter…
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Anonymous 3w

I’m so sorry. People and relationships are… complicated. There’s never an easy answer. It’s ironic how we all want the same thing (love & security) yet each must struggle so hard to find it. Someday it’ll be our turn. Someday.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

But what if it doesn’t get better? Hookup culture just seems to be getting more rampant, and it makes it that much harder to find something real, like someone who doesn’t pretend to be my friend just to get in my pants and ghost me. And it’s not just men, I’ve been experiencing this with women as well. I’m starting to think just accepting the loneliness will be less painful in the long run

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