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i think subconsciously a lot of people (including women. including people who are otherwise pro-choice.) do have this idea that as soon as a woman gives birth she’ll automatically want to be a mother regardless of her actual feelings
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Anonymous 1w

that’s def pro life logic which is stupid as fuck. like just because SOME women may bond with the child they were forced to give birth to doesn’t mean they’ll in any means be a good mother. its ultimately a super selfish mindset

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Anonymous 1w

Tbf birth giving does release a bunch of oxytocin to induce that bonding but in the sense you’re talking about it’s just over exaggerating the idea that women = caretaker bc of estrogen

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Anonymous 1w

idk i’m pro choice with the understanding that i could never personally get an abortion. but i know that at least for me, i am NOT a maternal person. i’ve always had the understanding that if i had an unplanned pregnancy, i would give it up for adoption. i’d do what i could to find good parents or even like a family friend who wants kids and can’t have them, but i am NOT keeping it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m saying bruh it still doesn’t clock to so many people that not every woman has a maternal instinct. & forced birth won’t change that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’m not disagreeing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

facts i am not maternal in the slightest

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

sameeeee i hear a child cry and i’m pissed off for hours on end. i feel 0 desire to help😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

SAME why is it so annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you truly couldn’t pay me to have and keep a kid. i truly applaud those that do it for free….

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