Girl Talk on Sidechat | i need to decenter men so badly i hate men so much that it consumes parts of me i should spend on myself or i get so invested in my relationship all of my self worth goes out the window advice is appreciated 🥀

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i need to decenter men so badly i hate men so much that it consumes parts of me i should spend on myself or i get so invested in my relationship all of my self worth goes out the window advice is appreciated 🥀

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Anonymous 3w

I realized how much control I gave men by vehemently hating them, since hate still means I care about what happens to them, just in a different way. I finally started putting that energy from hating them into loving myself, and treated my progress as an act of defiance. I still hold a lot of distaste for men, but they don’t occupy my thoughts when I don’t want them to.

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Anonymous 3w

Ur the shit they’re not shit

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