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I literally want to take back my decision to abroad bc of a boy. I’m so fucking in love w him but we don’t wanna do long distance and idk what to do
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Anonymous 5w

Genuinely, studying abroad is something you could never do again. This is a once in a lifetime thing. If he is really the one, he can handle waiting for a few months to see you again. If he’s not the one, why would you give up a once in a lifetime opportunity for him?

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Anonymous 5w

Do not take back your decision!! I’m sorry girl but opportunities like this do not come often and you need to take it. He will be here when you get back if you really love him. And if not then you have your whole life ahead of you!

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Anonymous 5w

I studied abroad with people in long distance relationships for that time. They FaceTimed every day and if he’s the right one then he will be right there for you when you come home. Strengthens bonds. You will deeply regret not going abroad if you make that choice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He will be the biggest heartbreak of my life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Is it just a semester? What’s the issue?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah but a lot can change. I’ve also never been in a relationship and he like knows what he wants and I’m scared I’m not good enough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Wait are you not currently dating him?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

No but it’s everything without the label. If I wasn’t leaving we would be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hun just from that sentence I can tell this will not be the biggest heart break of your life, it will be just be the first. He should support your endeavors and if he doesn’t then that is not the man for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Is he telling you to stay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

No he wants to visit me abroad. I’m just so fucking insecure and I don’t wanna lose him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Dumb imo. Won’t date because you won’t be able to see each other in person for a few months??? Dumb. To me that’s just saying they don’t think you are worth the effort and inconvenience of being long distance for a short period. If you actually love someone, a few months is nothing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don’t travel abroad to be with a man you’re not even in a relationship with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’ve heard friends and family who had skipped out on traveling abroad for relationships and never once have I heard them feel happy about that decision. They always regret it

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

His bsf just broke up w his gf cause of long distance and i get where he’s coming from. Imma just keep sitting on the floor and crying rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

How long were they long distance for?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes but long distance is usually permanent or a while. This is one semester. 3-4 months is nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

Dating for 3 yrs distance for like 3 months

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Half a year

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well that’s extremely weak on their part. I’m sorry you’re insecure about the situation but you’re really struggling over one man and an entire new country??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Nothing good ever happens to me when I actually truly like someone. I don’t think it’s possible for me to be loved

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That’s ridiculous 💀 my bf and I have been long distance for a year and a half and tbh, people who break up and say it’s from long distance are really just saying the distance showed fundamental relationship flaws that would have ultimately broken them up anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

Cleared

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