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Do you ever stop romanticizing over a first love? Like it’s not an all the time thing but every once in a while I find myself thinking about him and that relationship before i remember why we broke up
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Anonymous 22h

I think there’s a really good Beatles song about this (corny af I know), you can hold onto and ruminate your past loved ones without that meaning you’d go back to them or that it takes away any part of who you love now. We’re social creatures, we make bonds, and it’s silly to pretend those bonds can ever fully be carved out of us, some part will always remember for better or worse

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Anonymous 23h

For me no never stopped

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Anonymous 21h

like no not really…

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Anonymous 17h

it did finally stop for a while after several years apart but um we got back together and just got married so i’m prob not the best person to ask 🫪

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Wait what Beatles song is it? in my life??

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Yesssss I love it so much

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Anonymous 19h

Nobody asked what men mind or don’t mind

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Anonymous 19h

This has gotta be a boy (and yes I mean boy, not man) posting this

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Anonymous 18h

Uh she didn’t say she thinks about him during sex, do you think about other men during sex?

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Anonymous 17h

bro what are you yapping about

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

What this guy said? He’s saying men want virgins cause women with experience might think about other men during sex which is weird, so I’m asking if maybe this is a projection thing or if he’s speaking from personal experience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

yeah ik i’m just clowning on him

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

Wait I’m dumb and read the numbers long lmaooo

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