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Girl Talk 20h
this is def too much nuance for yikyak but i’m really interested in where we can draw the line between autonomy and social conditioning. bc if all your life you were told one thing over and over and any deviation was punished, how can we really say that’s
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Anonymous 20h

i think this is exactly what the ‘debate’ around shaving is - at what point does it become a woman’s choice to shave? when is it conforming to gender norms? very interesting line of thinking

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Anonymous 20h

someone’s choice? and how much of our choices are bc of things like that and not from a genuinely independent decision? idk!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I will say it gets very annoying when some people decide that you shaving is solely because of gender norms and no other reason like sensory issues

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 19h

Ok I agree but it’s crazy to think abt bc I grow my hair out to wax, and I do it because *I* likd it, but when I have to grow it out really long, I do get kind of embarrassed if ppl can see it

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