
Everyone in this story sounds toxic and immature. So many boundaries crossed from every angle But assuming all of what you said is true, she shouldn’t have went blabbing to him about it in a fit of rage. What good was that gonna do except create more drama?? Why would she drag you into a three-way mess? And if you answered any question that wasn’t just her being concerned for her safety or concerning behaviors, then you shouldn’t have
i shouldve clarified that the second message came months after the initial message and he never texted me, so i have no idea what this last fight was about or why she sent me that. the first message from her stemmed from him lying and needing to “figure it out for her own sanity”. i have no desire to get involved again, but when i saw her new dm and that she unsent it, i was taken aback because i thought the first dm was it.