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Going thru my first breakup any advice much appreciated :(
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Anonymous 20w

the best advice is to not try and get over it as fast as possible. i would take the time to think about the relationship because our brains like to forget about all of the bad things and only remember the good when we are in love. just be thoughtful and love yourself.

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Anonymous 20w

take this time to spend with friends, reinvest in hobbies, and if u have the opportunity to complain to a friend, i recommend it! i was staying with friends literally three days after my first breakup bc i had to come back to college early, and i got to basically give the full debrief to them which was very cathartic and also gave me space to process. its okay to cry, its okay to be angry, and it’s okay to have bad days.

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