Remember that your pleasure matters, foreplay is important, consent can be withdrawn at any time, and it’s good to communicate throughout. It can be as serious or silly as you want it to be; don’t be afraid to laugh it off if your body makes a weird noise. What’s your pregnancy/STI protection plan?

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Remember that consent is FRIES— freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, specific. Move at your pace— do not rush. Foreplay. Do not shy away from lube— if you need it, you need it and there’s nothing wrong with making yourself more comfortable with it. Learn about your body. If you like something, explore it. If you don’t, stop. Have fun, laugh, talk. Let the weird noises happen. Use protection, learn where to test.

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i'm 21 and i still have mine too!! i feel behind but it does feel good to be reserved. i have a boyfriend and ideally id want to lose it to him because i trust him and love him ofc but we are taking things slow so we haven't done anything too crazy yet. but all of a sudden hes acting like hes uninterested or scared to see me and im worried he's losing interest 💔 not that im eager to lose it or anything BUT i just really cant see me losing it to anyone else and it worries me.

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