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i feel like it’s such a toxic idea that sex is just a reward for men and not something women are equally capable of enjoying and wanting
women need to stick together and stop rewarding men with pussy. they do not deserve it and probably turned a blind eye to the cornell situation. no guy like that deserves access to your body. they’re dangerous and we are enabling this behavior from them.
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Anonymous 13h

Thank you!! This is what i was trying to say

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Anonymous 13h

we all wanna have sex that doesnt mean go have sex w men who enable rapists. and men AS A COLLECTIVE enable this type of behavior, which makes it unsafe for women to engage in sex even though we enjoy it. something has to give w you girls. open your eyes. look around. observe men’s behavior and their responses to other men’s disgusting behavior.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

lack of safety is a completely different framing. i was drawing issue with the framing that a woman’s body is only a reward for a man and not something she has autonomy over and does what she actually wants with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

bae. men def see pussy as a prize. they see your presence and your attention as a prize… all of it. and they show it off to their friends. you as a woman are a reward. a gift. a man that is a bystander to misogyny or engages in it doesn’t deserve you ever. doesn’t make sex any less of a choice for women. you can choose to engage w men who don’t gaf about your rights i just think you shouldn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Just because men see women as objects doesnt mean we need to use that framing when we talk about resisting it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

why are you framing sex based on how the man sees it tho that is what strikes me as misogynistic framing. to me how the woman feels about it and what she wants is equally as important i don’t think men’s perception should over shadow that

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