
I’m really sorry. I hope you know that this is an extremely aggressive type of cancer for cats and you ultimately did what was best for him. You tried what you could. He knew the effort you put into making sure he was okay. Be gentle with yourself, you made the most selfless choice you could have to give him a dignified goodbye.
It’s a ferocious one. Most people have no idea until they do a dental and find it early (which still has bad prognosis) or an abscess erupts. It’s not your fault. You did good by him. I’m sorry you had to see him in pain at the end, but I’m sure he was very comforted by your goodbyes.
This happened to my cat. This form of jaw cancer is the lead cause of death in cats. Usually by the time you find it the baby only has a month or so left. They go from being completely healthy to terminal in a phone call. I am so sorry you had to go through this too. For me, the hardest part was that she was fine the month prior. It was the shell shock. I know you’ve heard it but it does get better, my baby passed right before thanksgiving, but I still cry for her probably every other week