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guys what do you do if your boyfriend is the nicest person but never gets you flowers and he just always says “well we’re always together, i can’t surprise you” like he’s not abusive or anything it’s just….where is the effort man
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Anonymous 5d

say gift giving is a big part of how u show and like to be shown love

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

and let him knw how u feel about his effort in the relationship and what u need from him to feel like yall have more of a secure and fulfilled relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i have said it before and still, nothing. everything else that i have told him i needed, he has provided. its making me feel like i am materialistic even tho i know that it’s more about the gesture.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

yall just might not be compatible and thats ok. you're not asking for too much, and being very reasonable in communicating this with him already. it's not worth it to continue down a path with someone who can't even show u love how ur straight up asking for it. it's a bad sign for how he'll be in the future in my opinion

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