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hey yall him gooning over some random girls instagram/ only fans is cheating right? idk how to let this one go :(
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Anonymous 20w

girl it doesn’t matter what other people think is cheating or not, it only matters what YOU think is cheating. Those are YOUR boundaries and he should respect them. I don’t know your relationship and I don’t know what he’s like so I’m not going to say you should definitely break up, but at least talk to him and tell him that he hurt you. If he doesn’t respect your feelings and change his behavior then…

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Anonymous 20w

LEAVE HIM RN

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Anonymous 20w

The only thing you should be letting go of isthat man

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Anonymous 20w

Girl if you have to ask this question then you need to leave

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Anonymous 20w

Whatever you define as cheating. Personally I don’t mind porn on either side but PAYING for it is a little outrageous.

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Anonymous 20w

It’s cheating, leave him

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Anonymous 20w

Yes, especially the onlyfans part

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Anonymous 20w

yes

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Anonymous 20w

LEAVEEE he is not the one and you deserve someone who is mature and emotionally intelligent enough to be fully satisfied with just their beautiful deserving partner

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Anonymous 20w

1. Gross please leave him 2. I don’t think it’s cheating, but it’s disgusting. He has issues!

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Anonymous 20w

Girl leave him expeditiously

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Anonymous 20w

And what’s his excuse?

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Anonymous 20w

I’m so sorry girl, you deserve better❤️

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Anonymous 20w

Leave 👏🏾👏🏾 your husband 👏🏾👏🏾✨

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Anonymous 20w

He is literally a dog ma’am.

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Anonymous 20w

let that 🥭

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Anonymous 20w

I dont consider porn cheating, OF is questionable because you’re seeking specific people, my boyfriend and I both watch porn, but he honestly has started looking at my pictures more instead, however, I do consider him using someone’s instagram page very strange, it’s so much more personal than just a porn site

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Anonymous 20w

Yes

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Anonymous 20w

Literally ew

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Anonymous 20w

I’m holding your hand when I say this RUN THAT MAN IS EVIL!

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Anonymous 20w

As a girl that has been cheated on in my relationship multiple times (dming girls, snapping girls, tinder, dates, etc. but no physical stuff) it’s hard to say. Everyone in the world can give you advice and say one thing but in the end it’s up to you. Can you live without this person? Are you willing to work through it? Are you willing to go through it again? These are all questions I had to ask myself and in the end- there is nobody in the world I would want to be with but him.

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Anonymous 20w

you need a new man

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Anonymous 20w

sigh.

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Anonymous 20w

Yea I mean ur right there lol hot girl summer here u come

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Anonymous 20w

I think it’s cheating it can cause no trust and problems when u try to be intimate with the person

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Anonymous 20w

yes it is cheating. he clearly find those women attractive to be gooning to it. sorry babe 💔

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Anonymous 20w

EWWWW LEAVE HIS ASS

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Anonymous 20w

definitely cheating girl pls leave

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Anonymous 20w

Leave him

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Anonymous 20w

Girl….. run

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Anonymous 20w

It is definitely cheating time to let him go immediately ‼️

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Anonymous 20w

Absolutely. And from experience, you’ll never get over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 20w

^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 20w

Yea this bc I don’t consider stuff like that cheating or I just don’t really care since he isn’t actually talking to them or interacting with them but I 100% understand how other people would

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 20w

took the words right out my mouth girl. as someone w the same boundaries id leave his ass. but like they said, we don't know your relationship. he could be open to stopping or getting help, but do NOT let him disrespect you again. Once is already too much.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

NAH FR

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 20w

See and I have heard ppl defend paying for it as like “not contributing to the toxic p0rn culture that abuses women and never pays them” but PAYING someone on OF feels a little more prostitute-y and intimate. Especially bc you can pay to talk to them and stuff too. Which I would DEFINITELY consider edging into true infidelity.

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 20w

Well I won’t want to shame or cause bad feelings towards sex workers. They are working and I agree with the point of possibly engaging in feelings towards the worker. People pay for connection and intimacy which would then blend into the cheating aspect.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 20w

Agree. I am less bothered about the ethical sourcing, and more bothered about how much more intimate it can be than a random 10 minute jerk off to the first video they see on a free website, yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 20w

Exactly! There’s free stuff and honestly much less personal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 20w

My petty ass would show him all these comments showing him how many girls would dump him too

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Anonymous 20w

I don’t have low self esteem. I just genuinely chose to believe a person could change their perspective on things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 20w

#14 I wish I had a friend like you on my side because this was the best comment and I 100% agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20w

he has none apparently him and his friends at work were looking at girls pretty much but he lied to my face saying he didn’t before i showed him video evidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 20w

haha i was not expecting this opening my phone this morning and i probably am going to!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

As you should 💅 you deserve only the best

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