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breaking up with my bf bc we just argued about consent 🥳
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Anonymous 13w

congratulations!! 🍾 love losing dead weight

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Anonymous 13w

YES MAAM and go celebrate bc you are free and safe

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Anonymous 13w

Dodged a major bullet queen ❤️ much love

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Anonymous 13w

YESSS GOOD. I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year because I found out he had a sex addiction and couldn’t get off on porn and was harassing other girls.

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Anonymous 13w

Damn he needs to redo that dumbass SA course again

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Anonymous 13w

what was his argument??

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Anonymous 13w

Im sorry, *argued*? Yea, you had to let him go…

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Anonymous 13w

period!!!

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Anonymous 13w

Looks like someone needs to rewatch the consent is tea video 🙄

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Anonymous 13w

may he never find love again❤️

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Anonymous 13w

Oooo thank god you really dodged a bullet there no more scary ugly man 🎉🥳

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Anonymous 13w

AS YOU FUCKING SHOULD.

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Anonymous 13w

I was there in the ask men comments. I’m so relieved you broke up with that pos bc I was genuinely upset on your behalf hearing the shit he was saying and doing to you. You deserve so much better and good on you for realizing that!

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Anonymous 13w

good fuckin work, proud of you for respecting yourself enough <333

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Anonymous 13w

I’m having a drink to celebrate you tonight

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Anonymous 13w

Good job

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Anonymous 13w

THROW THE WHOLE BOY OUT

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Anonymous 13w

DAMN

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Anonymous 13w

GET HIM OUTTTT 🗣️

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Anonymous 12w

Also just saying I’m so proud of you op I’m sure that was hard to do, like not bc obviously, but yk it was still a relationship and yeah just wanted to say I’m proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

? lmfao did that girl delete all her comments or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

SHE DID OMFG

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

sorry didn’t mean to reply to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

idk how to explain this without getting TMI but basically he said if I like one thing then it’s okay for him to move on to the next, more extreme step without asking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I was the 25th downvote :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 13w

oh I didn’t know they still deleted from downvotes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

NOO i was about to show this thread to my friend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

YIKES yeah that’s not okay i’m glad your free <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I’ll explain a bit more. it’s only for things he had consent for in the past. but still, not things I believe you should just do without making sure they’re fine with it in that moment. he wasn’t just like trying new things without ever asking 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

what did it say??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

still, having enthusiastic consent each time is important to check in on

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 13w

a girl was telling me that it wasn’t a good reason to break up with him and telling me to convince him (I still don’t know of what ?) instead of breaking up basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 13w

I think a better explanation is he thought it was okay to just do something if he’s gotten previous consent on it. and that if I don’t want him to do it that day that I should tell him no AFTER he’s already done it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

tell him no after he’s already done???? um no thanks wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

EEWW bash her with a stick 🤢 he’s nasty and so is she

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 13w

she eventually changed her mind and said that my explanation made it okay for me to break up with him but I really don’t understand how you need further explanation to know that not agreeing on basic consent isn’t a good relationship 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 13w

me too bae

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I’m the girl, who tf deleted my comment?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

ME HOE

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

gtfo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

bye hope you don’t drown in your bs on the way out🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 13w

Bruh people wanted to see that thread smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Womp womp

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 12w

Bash her w a stick floored me 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 12w

Only time I agree w saying womp womp lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 12w

thank you 😭 he was hot asf and in general kind. it was hard but I’ve dealt with exes not respecting consent in the past

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Ofc bae, i totally get it, i had to leave someone for being verbally abusive bc I knew it was going to lead to physical bc of his anger. Totally different situation ofc but I didn’t like want to want to if that makes sense so wanted to say proud of you 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nigga were you dating a super villain 🥀💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 12w

nah I also had to do that 😭 but that guy was ugly and mean so lol

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