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my relationship is so perfect when my boyfriend puts in effort but he spends so much time trying to balance his commitments that sometimes he forgets to
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Anonymous 7w

I appointed it out to him the other day and I really hope it gets better he was apologizing for work taking up so much of his time this summer and I was like “but when it’s not work, it’s school, it’s always something and i just want to feel seen”

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Anonymous 7w

sounds like ur on a rollercoaster of inconsistent effort. it's good u told him, if the rollercoaster continues i'd seriously consider if this is healthy for u to stay in

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Anonymous 7w

i don’t know how long this has been going on for you but if he has gone through a big transition recently he could just genuinely be struggling to adjust people don’t account for the fact that when you’re becoming adults and you have a partner, you have to support eachother while your entire life changes yk?

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